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Baldur's Gate 3 offers an expansive range of romance options that enrich the game's narrative and player experience. Whether you're seeking a deep, long-lasting relationship or a fleeting romantic encounter, the game caters to all preferences. In this comprehensive guide, we'll walk you through each romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, providing detailed steps to foster these relationships and avoid missing out on any potential romantic paths.
All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### Romance in BG3 Explained:
In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is accessible regardless of your character's sex, making every romantic option available to all players. The game distinguishes between short-term and long-term relationships, with the nature of each romance varying based on the character you're pursuing and your ultimate goals. Some characters offer the possibility of a 'One-Night Stand,' while others require a more prolonged courtship.
Be aware that certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths, such as failing to complete specific tasks promptly or being romantically involved with multiple characters simultaneously. Most companion NPCs can be romanced, but entering a relationship with them will alter your interactions, meaning you won't be able to experience every romance in a single playthrough. Below, we detail the romance options for each companion and non-companion character.
All Romance Options:
Companion characters available for romance in Baldur's Gate 3 include:
- Shadowheart
- Gale
- Astarion
- Karlach
- Wyll
- Lae'zel
- Halsin
- Minthara
Non-companion characters available for short-term romance include:
- Mizora
- Guardian/Emperor
- Drow Twins
- Haarlep
- Naoise Nallinto
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3
Shadowheart emerges as a prominent romance option early in the game, often being the first companion you meet post-crash. Her interest is apparent if you focus on boosting her approval through kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. Romancing Shadowheart adds a unique layer to her storyline, given her integral role in the plot.
How to Romance Shadowheart:
- Keeping Shadowheart in your party aids in building her approval, though it's not strictly necessary.
- Increase her approval by siding with her against Lae'zel early on and by showing kindness and respect.
- In Act I, once your approval is high, look for the "missed a chance to connect" dialogue or wait for the camp party after rescuing Halsin. Accept her offer to share a bottle and choose to spend the evening with her. A romantic walk may lead to a kiss, and subsequent conversations can affirm your interest in a long-term relationship.
- In Act II, continue the romance whether you side with Selune or Shar. Support her choices and participate in nighttime events that may take several nights to trigger.
- In Act III, complete her quest line, leading to a final romantic scene involving a swim. Choose supportive dialogue options to deepen your bond.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
- Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romantic interests, though this isn't universally applicable. For a safe playthrough, especially in Honor Mode, focus solely on her.
How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3
Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is open to romance and plays a significant role in the game's plot. Engaging in a relationship with him can enhance your overall experience.
How to Romance Gale:
- Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site to begin your journey with him.
- Fulfill his requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
- Participate in his magic lesson in Act I, choosing romantic dialogue options to foster a connection.
- Before transitioning to Act II, support Gale during the Elminster cutscene, expressing care for his well-being.
- In Act III, ensure Gale remains alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Speak to him before taking a long rest, selecting romantic dialogue to unlock the final romance scene.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
- Gale does not tolerate open relationships and will be unhappy if you romance other characters.
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3
Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular romance choice. His open-mindedness allows for a flexible relationship dynamic.
How to Romance Astarion:
- Build approval by adding him to your party and choosing self-serving and sarcastic options. He appreciates avoiding unnecessary altruism.
- Allow Astarion to drink your blood to boost your relationship.
- During the camp party, engage with him using specific dialogue choices to unlock the first major romance scene. Allow him to bite you to increase approval.
- After the first scene, show interest in his scars and inquire about their Infernal writing.
- In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about the scars, leading to a nighttime visit from Astarion. Choose romantic and supportive dialogue options.
- In Act III, complete Astarion's quest, supporting his decisions regarding the ritual. This leads to a final romantic scene, with the possibility of becoming a vampire if you choose to let him complete the ritual.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
- Astarion is the most open-minded partner, showing little anger if you engage in other romantic encounters.
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3
Karlach offers a rewarding romance with a compelling storyline. Initiating a relationship with her requires careful attention, especially given her sensitivity to infidelity.
How to Romance Karlach:
- Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early to build approval through kindness, understanding, and justified violence.
- Collect Infernal Iron quickly to help Dammon the blacksmith in the Emerald Grove adjust her Infernal Engine. Express disappointment about not being able to touch her yet, affirming your interest.
- During the camp party, express your feelings to Karlach. Later, suggest throwing water on her to cool her off, leading to a kiss.
- In Act II, find Dammon at the Last Light Inn and use Infernal Iron to further stabilize her engine.
- In Act III, take Karlach on a date to deepen your relationship.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
- Karlach is highly sensitive to infidelity and may end the relationship if you sleep with others. Apologize sincerely if this happens to potentially regain her trust.
- Once her heart is fixed, you can commit to a long-term relationship with unique dialogue throughout the game.
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3
Wyll's complex character offers a unique romance that enhances his storyline. His heroism and struggles make him an intriguing partner.
How to Romance Wyll:
- Increase Wyll's approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests, including resolving his conflicts with Mizora and his father.
- Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove, ensuring high approval to spend the night with him during the party.
- In Act II, after a long rest, find Wyll dancing and engage in romantic dialogue.
- In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur, leading to a final romantic encounter.
How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3
Lae'zel's interest in the player is evident early on, allowing for both short-term and long-term romance options.
How to Romance Lae'zel:
- Raise her approval through decisive action and combat readiness, preferring direct fighting over persuasion or deception.
- Once approval is high, mention her changed demeanor in camp, potentially leading to a one-night stand.
- In Act II, accept her challenge to a duel, which, regardless of the outcome, deepens your bond.
- In Act III, depending on her allegiance with Vlaakith or Orpheus, you can be seen as a couple during the ending sequence.
Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:
- Lae'zel will end the relationship if you are unfaithful after the duel.
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3
Halsin's appeal lies in his connection to nature and his robust character, making him a popular romance choice.
How to Romance Halsin:
- Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion in Act II.
- Complete his quests, including lifting the Shadow Curse, to enable him to join your party.
- Keep him in your party, promoting kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness.
- Regularly engage with all his dialogue options, especially those regarding former lovers.
- Once approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night. Ensure other companions like Shadowheart or Astarion are okay with it, as Karlach and Gale will not be.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3
Minthara's romance is unique as she is typically an enemy, best suited for evil or Durge playthroughs.
How to Romance Minthara:
- Instead of attacking the Goblin Camp, side with Minthara, betraying your party and the Emerald Grove.
- After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, embrace the change, and open your mind, leading to her visiting your camp.
- At the goblin party, declare yourself hers, and proceed to bed where she will join you. Passing a persuasion check is crucial to avoid a violent end to the encounter.
Since the official release, some players suggest that you can knock out Minthara at the Goblin Camp, rescue her later at Moonrise Towers in Act II, and have her join your party. We will update this guide as more information becomes available.
Minthara Romance Special Notes:
- Choosing the evil path significantly alters your game experience, alienating other party members due to the destruction of the Emerald Grove.
All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### How to Romance Mizora:
- Keep Wyll in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
- Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony in Act II.
- In Act III, find Mizora in the audience chamber at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. Discuss Duke Ravengard, leading to her visiting your camp.
- When she arrives, rest until you see an exclamation mark over her head. Engage in suggestive dialogue to trigger a one-off romance scene.
How to Romance the Guardian:
- Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Act II and Act III.
- Evolving into Half-Ilithid is beneficial for approval.
- Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about their past lover.
- When the Emperor visits after this discovery, hold their hand and respond positively to advances, leading to a romance scene.
How to Romance the Drow Twins:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III and speak to Mamzell Amira.
- Either complete a quest for her or pay directly to access the Drow Twins.
- Proceed to their chambers to initiate the scene, avoiding involving Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.
How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:
- Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
- Engage with Haarlep, the Incubus, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.
How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:
- Visit Sharess' Caress and find the locked door marked by a green lantern and ivy.
- Enter the chamber to find Naoise and Jara. After defeating the Mindflayer that Jara becomes, engage with Naoise, following her cues to a brief romantic scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.
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